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There is, therefore, in any senior-freshman hook-up an unavoidable imbalance, baked into the sexual interaction itself. The senior has more power than the first-year, and always will. Why do we think power imbalance is a problem if both parties consent to it? We frown upon teacher-student relationships for precisely this reason. Granted, seniors are not teachers and sex is not painting. But the essential insight is the same.
When these imbalances go wrong, they go very, very wrong. I am reluctant even to mention sexual assault, but it is too important to neglect. A senior exploits the imbalance of power to his own benefit. Of course most senior men and women do not assault first-year men and women. Of course most senior-freshman hook-ups are consensual. Sexual assault is different. But it is similar. It shares with senior-freshman relationships a common root: a sexual interaction in which one party has more power than the other.
Some very rare freshmen are preternaturally experienced or mature, and perhaps they can carry out a perfectly mutual relationship with a senior. I believe these circumstances are possible. But I believe they are exceedingly rare. Far rarer than the hook-up scene at Amherst would suggest. I refuse to believe that the exceedingly large number of senior boy-freshman girl hook-ups is due to interpersonal chemistry. Perhaps I am mistaken.
But I suspect in both cases less noble intentions are in play, and that worries me, and it should worry you. Others may argue, not without merit, that senior-freshman relationships can be beneficial for both parties. The freshman nabs a cute older girl and a crash-course in dating at Amherst. Life is, in the end, about living and having experiences and making mistakes, and dating someone older than you can be a wild ride and a lot of fun.
Being intimate with someone more experienced than you can be invigorating. The senior-freshman relationship makes this possible. The girlfriend will find out — and she will get angry. The girlfriend and her friends will brand you with a reputation that might take the next four years to escape. People in all stages of life deal with significant others who are thousands of miles away. By the time your class reaches its senior year, almost every person who began college in an LDR will have moved on.
Freshmen are often optimistic about turning their high school relationship into a long distance one. Yet seniors know just how difficult it can be to keep things together. Jealousy and trust become huge issues for couples, and miscommunication can quickly turn a conversation into a fight. It can also be hard to really enjoy college with a distant boyfriend or girlfriend weighing on your mind.
Your dorm might seem like the best place in the world to pick up women or men — after all, the dorms are full of hot single girls or guys. Unfortunately, jumping into a relationship with someone who lives down the hall is a bad idea. Love seeing the girl two doors down in the bathroom every morning?
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